new info - pics of my birth father and I

I was contacted by a woman who found my information on the www. She turned out to be my cousin! She was actually raised her uncle (my birthfather) when she was 10yrs. old She is really sweet and mailed me off a cute handmade card to welcome me into the family!

She emailed me a picture of my birthfather - Charles Monroe Clay Jr. on  March 19, 2010 - it was the first time I set eyes on him in my life – I was born November 21, 1955 - what a shock and relief at the same time.

He resides in Tulsa, OK with his wife. I also have to half-brothers - twins no less! - Mike & Mark - they were both in the Army and both went to Barbers School and have a shop together. I have not contacted them yet, but I would like to. I guess the fear of rejection is what’s keeping me from just picking up the phone and calling.

I’m praying about it and my husband’s going to help me – so keep me in your prayers and feel free to post if you have advice or suggestions.

Thanks! Susie

Charles Monroe Clay Jr.

Susie Pedersen
aka Cheryl Ann Clay

  

I look a lot like my birthmother too but wow - 

I can definitely see a resemblance - I mean look at that mean wave LOL!